Wednesday, October 9, 2013

New mothers are developing depression because they feel under pressure to do everything right

  • New mothers also say they worry about money and childcare
  • Of those with depression, 43% do not want to leave the house, 22% have suicidal thoughts and 30% suffer symptoms for more than 18 months
  • Three quarters of women don't feel they can tell their health worker about their depression and 40% do not receive any treatment
  • 34% wouldn't disclose feelings for fear their baby would be taken away
  • 31% of women are put off talking to a midwife because they see a different one at every appointment




  • New mothers are developing depression because they feel under pressure to get everything right, a new report has found.
    A range of worries - including money and getting practical help with childcare - cause women to feel very low, according to a poll of 1,500 women who suffered from depression either in pregnancy or after birth.
    Concerns over work and money made 12 per cent feel they could not cope, while 22 per cent felt pressure to ‘do things right’ and 21 per cent suffered due to a lack of practical and emotional support.
    New mothers are developing depression because they feel under pressure to get everything right, a new report has found
    New mothers are developing depression because they feel under pressure to get everything right and because they are worried about money and childcare, a new report has found

    This compared with 12 per cent who felt their mental health had been impacted by their hormones and 15 per cent who believed they had a pre-disposition to depression.
    As a result of their illness, 43 per cent of mothers did not want to leave the house, 22 per cent had suicidal thoughts and 30 per cent said symptoms lasted more than 18 months.
    The poll, from organisations including Netmums, the baby charity Tommy's and the Royal College of Midwives (RCM), forms part of a report into mental health among pregnant women and those who have recently given birth.
    It found three quarters did not feel they could tell a health worker about their depression and 40 per cent did not receive any treatment.
     

    Some 34 per cent did not disclose for fear that they would have their baby taken away from them and a further 31 per cent were put off because they saw different midwifes or health visitors at their appointments. 
    The report also surveyed 2,000 health professionals. 
    It found fewer than half of community midwives saw the same woman throughout her care and 44 per cent said there was not enough time to discuss mental health in appointments. 
    Their concerns were echoed by health visitors, with only 43 per cent seeing the same woman throughout her care.
    Some 34 per cent of depressed pregnant women and new mothers do not disclose their symptoms for fear they would have their baby taken away
    Some 34 per cent of depressed pregnant women and new mothers do not disclose their symptoms for fear they would have their baby taken away

    Health workers also said the current guidance on asking about mental health - two simple questions - was not sufficient to pick up on many mental health symptoms.
    The questions ask women if they feel sad or have lost interest in things.
    Sally Russell, co-founder of Netmums, said: ‘Depression during or post pregnancy can be dreadful for the mother - but the condition affects the whole family as well.
    ‘The illness robs families of what should be one of the happiest times of their lives as they welcome a new arrival.
    ‘It's clear to see that as society changes with longer working hours, fewer families living close together and the relentless media pressure for new mums to look, act and feel perfect, that there is a real danger incidences of this illness could be on the increase.’
    Jane Brewin, chief executive of Tommy's, said: ‘Pregnancy and motherhood are life-changing experiences and on top of the physical changes and new responsibilities, many women are scared of doing the “wrong” thing or fear they will “fail” as a mum.
    ‘Everyone expects pregnancy to be a happy time, which makes it even harder for women to open up when they're feeling under pressure, anxious or depressed.
    ‘Mental health problems in pregnancy can have consequences for both mother and baby, and we need to create both a society and a health care system where women can be open about their feelings, and get the support and treatment they need.’
    Cathy Warwick, chief executive of the RCM, said: ‘The Government have publicly pledged to do more to help women with mental health difficulties in pregnancy and after birth.
    ‘The survey also highlights the need to improve professionals' knowledge and willingness to help and support women to access appropriate help.
    Three quarters of pregnant women and new mothers with depression do not feel they can tell a health worker about their depression and 40 per cent do not receive any treatment
    Three quarters of pregnant women and new mothers with depression do not feel they can tell a health worker about their depression and 40 per cent do not receive any treatment

    ‘We recognise that this is often very difficult as midwives face pressure on their time due to the demands on the maternity services caused by a rising birth rate, more complex births and a shortage of midwives.’
    The report was also produced with the Institute of Health Visiting and the Boots Family Trust, which funded the work.
    The group has now launched a wellbeing plan for women to help them think about their emotional needs during pregnancy and after birth. 
    Carina Gordon, 25, from Romsey in Hampshire, had depression in pregnancy while expecting her first child.
    She said: ‘About four months into the pregnancy I just started feeling angry, but I shrugged it off thinking it was just hormones playing up. 
    ‘However, it only got worse - I felt like I was going mad. 
    ‘Most of the time I just hid it. I would cry in the car, as that was my private time. Eventually I told a midwife, who said I would be referred for treatment but no follow-up ever took place.’
    Up to one in seven women experience a mental health problem in pregnancy or after birth.


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